Friday, October 2, 2009
Moving my blog.
thewigginsarehere.wordpress.com
This all happened very quickly this morning as I was getting increasing frustrated with my inablitly to "beautify" my blog. See, David set my blog up for my as a gift last year, and since I didn't want to seem ungrateful, I didn't mention the fact that I thought it lacked a little umph. So this morning, as I was trying to give the blog some umph, I found myself getting increasingly frustrated (almost to the point of cursing and throwing the computer) I decided I had to make a change to something that was eaiser for me to navigate (sorry blogger).
So check us out at wordpress because I am leaving the blogger behind!!
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Ramblings...
Friday, September 11, 2009
New Stuff.
Also, the weather here is amazing! Maybe I am weird, but good weather can put me in such a great mood. A couple days ago the high was like 70...fall is definitely the best time of year here. One thing I am still not getting used to...only like two months of good swimming weather. Our neighborhood pool is already closed. That seems crazy comng from Florida were September is still HOT!
So, two new things in the life of the Wiggins. The first...drum roll....Annabel has started Preschool! Can I get a woot woot...haha. Okay, but seriously...I think I may be more excited then her but she is getting the hang of it. She is actually there right now...so it is kind of nice to be able to blog in a quiet house. Jude still takes a morning nap so I have about 2 hours of quiet on Tues. and Thurs. mornings. It is very nice. Annabel's first day of school I think she was a little nervous...which was hard, but she worked it out and now she loves it.
The second new thing for me is I am working. Okay...only like 7 hours a week, but still it is something. I am working in our church preschool department on wednesdays mornings and evenings. It is interesting because my first day I felt so happy. It has been a long time since I brought a paycheck into our house and I guess I forgot how good it feels to make a little money. I felt like I was actually contributing. Not that I haven't over the past few years, but I have had a job since I was 15 so sometimes I feel a little guilty not having one. I guess I feel like more a part of the real world and it is nice. It is also kind of nice working in childcare (never thought I would say that...hahaha). I haven't really done that since I was a teenager and I have a very different perspective now that I am a parent myself. Having dropped my kids off and picked them up many times it always feels bad when then teacher is looking around like..."uhhh, which one belongs to you again. Oh, yeah okay here she is." I hate it when they give you no information, you almost feel like they didn't even realize your kid was in their class. So, that being said I am really trying to get to know each of my kids and it is my goal to give each parent a feeling of peace when they drop their child off with me. It really is a ministry to that parent...it is such a nice feeling when you feel like someone has invested time in your child and takes a few minutes to let you know how your child did. So that is my goal and it feels nice to be able to do it for other moms.
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Annabel's Art
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Psalms
"Praise the Lord, O my soul, all my inmost being praise his holy name.
Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits-
who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases,
who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion
who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's
The Lord works rightousness and justice for all the oppressed."
I LOVE this verse. As I have matured as a Christian I realize that a lot of these benefits may not be realized on earth, but we have so long with Christ and I love that as Christ-followers we all are subject to recieve these benefits for our belief! What a blessing to be a follower of Christ. Today I am remembering that the blessings of Christ aren't new cars, big homes or anything that can be purchased here on earth, the blessing of Christ CANNOT be bought. It is such a burden to think that so many people on earth will miss these blessings.
I love the part that God satisfies our desires with good things. We serve a good God, who has our best interest in mind. We have to trust Him through every trial!!
"Praise the Lord, O my soul, all my inmost being, praise his holy name."
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Haircuts, Cookbooks and Mommyhood.
Thursday, July 30, 2009
First Time for Everything.
Evil Death Stare- a look from another mother while she holds her crying child that says, "You are a terrible mother. I can't believe you have such a horrible child. Where did they learn such behavior? You must push your children around all day, because I don't see how else they could have learned such a horrific act."
Okay, I may be exaggerating a little...but only a small amount. It was bad. I had no idea what or if my daughter had done anything to her child because they were out of our sight when the terrible behavior occured, but Annabel's demeanor said it all. She had guilt written on her face. I am not writing about this to wave responsibility from my child or myself. Annabel got in trouble and further action is in place. I say this to say to other mom's out there. Give me a break. Do you seriously mean to tell me your child has never done anything they are not supposed to? If your answer to that question is "No" you are in denial.
My child (who is usually very good) sometimes does things that leave me and David looking at each other in wonder. Sometimes she does and says things you have no idea where it came from. And I have a feeling it only gets worse as they get older.
I write this to say...Moms, yes stick up for your kid when they are wronged (that part of you job), but also remember that it is likely you will be on the other side oneday. No one understands better then other moms how you feel about the burdens of raising a child who is a responsible and kind human being. But lets support each other and give each other the benefit of the doubt...and lets save the evil death stares for our husbands. :)
Monday, July 27, 2009
Yummy Recipe
After watching a review of the new movie Julie and Julia, I think it would be fun to cook through a cookbook. I am not going to blog about it (well maybe a little if I find a really good recipe) but since I can tend to be indecisive when it comes to picking new meals to try, I thought this would be a great way to get past that. I have been in a rut lately when it comes to cooking and if I can find the right cook book I think this could help.
Creamy Chicken:
2 pounds Chicken
1 can cream of mushroom soup
8 oz. cream cheese softened (chive/onion flavored)
1 Packet Italian Seasoning Mix
1/4 cup melted butter
1/2 cup water
Place chicken in crock pot. Mix together the last five ingredients and pour over chicken. Cook on low for 6-8 hours or high for 3-4 stirring occasionally. When done serve with noodles or rice.
I have served it with both and it is really good over noodles. Enjoy.
Friday, June 19, 2009
Beach Week 09
MIL and DIL came to stay with us and helped BIG time with the kiddos so I could be involved. I already miss them so much. Annabel was SO happy to see them and when we were leaving she was sad. She said "I want to go with Grandma and Pop." It was sad, but I am so happy that she loves her family so much. Pop was great with her, he carried her to the pool and they were so cute together. Grandma fed Jude and watched Lady and the Tramp with Annabel like 500 times :) She will never want to watch that movie again!! I love being in Asheville and serving at Biltmore, but I miss and love my family!! You guys are so great!! Thank you so much for all you do.
Friday, June 12, 2009
Update
We are so close!!
Next, I have sold 4 Little Piggys and have about 6 more in the works!! Yay! It is so much fun. Here are a few pictures of recents ones.
In other news... Annabel got her first pair of roller skates. They are a little large for her still, but she was very excited to try them on.
We are leaving tomorrow to go to Beach Week (our High School camp). I am super excited. It is going to be so much fun. Since David is leading worship I get to go and bring the family. David's mom and dad are coming to meet us there and help with the kids a little. It is going to be great and hopefully I will have tons of pics next week.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Defiance of a Toddler
Monday, May 25, 2009
This Little Piggy...
I made "This Little Piggy" for a birthday party Annbel was invited to.
Needed to practice so I made this one for a special little boy :) Hopefully I will get it to him soon.
Hopefully I will get better as I keep practicing, but in the meantime if you invite Annabel to a birthday party it is a good bet you will get one of these :)
Saturday, May 23, 2009
New Opportunities
For other news... we spent a day in Greenville a few weeks ago. We took Annabel to the zoo and ate dinner at Sonny's. We saw an 'elle-ee-flunt' and some monkeys that I think may have been mating (needless to say we rushed passed the monkey exhibit very quickly). It was fun, but I have to say the Navarre Zoo is probably better.
Yesterday we took another family adventure to see some waterfalls. We hiked about a mile total and saw two different falls. It was very fun and beautiful. We were thinking back on last year this time, I was pregnant and had no desire to hike up anything so now that I am back to 'normal' we are looking forward to many new adventures this summer.
So, there is something new on the horizon for me, hence the title 'new opportunities'. I don't think I am quite ready to spill the beans... but I will soon (and NO it has nothing to do with being pregnant or having any new children in our home). I am very excited and hope to have something official to share soon.
I am trying to post pictures but I think our internet it too slow... will try later.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Mother's Day
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Monday, April 27, 2009
Mother of Two
I am finding that I have to completly change the way I view my day and what makes it successful. These days the 'chores' may not get done by the time David gets home (or at all for that matter). It is been better now that I am realizing my schedule needs to change, but it has been a harder adjustment then I expected. Breastfeeding can be exhausting (especially when Jude is probably close to 17 pounds and seems to be going through a growth spurt everyday) and 'me' time is a thing of the past. I am having to really get my priorties straight.
In the meantime I am reminding myself that this is a phase and being a mother of two will not always be this hard. I don't know how long this stage will last... maybe a few weeks, months or (dare I say it) years. God is really showing me a lot about myself and my relationship with Him. Prayer and daily time with him is something I HAVE to have. It is amazing to me that something that sounds as easy or simple at being a stay at home mom (SAHM) God can use to set me right with Him. Those of you who think staying at home with your kids is an easy job... just wait. There is a reason women fought for years to be able to work away from home. There are many days I day dream about this possibility, and I may even make it a reality oneday, but for now I know God is using this time to teach me and my children some very valuable lessons.
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Long time... no pics
This is just a cute one of Annabel playing.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Getting Real
One very important aspect of my life is my faith. I have a hard time posting a lot about my faith for numerous reasons. Mostly I just can't quite get what God is doing in my life into a succinct and meaningful blog post. Plus, there have been a lot of ups and downs this year... and I hate to burden anyone with my massive mess. But God has been teaching me that in order for Him to answer some of my prayers I have to put myself out there and allow others to really know me.
I tend collect my problems and hide them in my little 'turtle shell' so to speak. I try to be so strong and independent, and always put on a good face. The problem is in hiding all my problems from the world I also am attempting to hide them from my all-powerful God. Doesn't make much sense.
Through compounding trials in our lives as of late, I have realized I have no control. There is nothing I can do... besides pray... in any of my situations. I feel more peace at finally coming to this realization then I have in a long while. I HAVE to give it to God... I have no other option. My hands are in the air, I surrender ALL (such a hard thing to do when you are a control freak). This whole attitude has completely transformed my prayer life. I have found myself begging like never before for my merciful God to swoop in and claim victory. Thank you Jesus that the big battle is already won. I take comfort that God is molding me into what He wants me to be. I guess I am typing all this so that others who may be struggling will know you are not alone (and maybe a little for therapy and a little to request prayer). Beneath all the stories of my crazy kids... there are hard times and feelings of defeat. There are times lately David and I have looked at each other and said "oh, no... not again." I don't know if it is over, but I am throwing off my 'shell' and asking my Jesus to rescue me!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Adventures of Diego and Baby Jaguar
Okay.... game over!
Friday, March 13, 2009
Picture Post
Okay.... now for some pictures.
Trying to get a family picture was a little difficult.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
The Play Park
When we got to the play park there were about four, five year old little boys running around. Annabel basically was minding her own business... and looking extremely cute. I guess at some point the boys decided to add Annabel into their game... she was to become the monster (she had no idea she was playing with them). Anytime Annabel would get close to them they would run away screaming "here comes the monster." A little of the protective Mommy wanted to come out and tell those boys that my daughter was a princess... NOT a monster, but I held back. Luckily, Annabel was clueless. At one point as I was coming around the corner and the boys were running screaming Annabel said "that is not a monster, that is my mommy." SO CUTE!! She totally thought they were calling me a monster and was sticking up for her mommy. I was trying so hard not to laugh at the whole thing. Finally, one little boys grandfather pulled him to the side and demanded that he stop calling Annabel a monster... that she was a little girl and he better let her play with him or they were leaving. If you could only have seen his face... "awwwww man."
All the while my little girl was so unware... her innocence is so refreshing. I know oneday she will come home crying because of something like this and I will not know what to do, but in the mean time I am lucky to be able to be there as her defender if ever she needs me... or if I need her!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
MIL
And now....
I basically just wanted to take a minute to tell everyone what a wonderful MIL (mother in law)I have. Beccie is one of the most generous, caring and intellegent women I know. In everything she does she strives for excellence. I have learned so much from her and feel SO lucky to have her as my MIL and to be a part of the clan they call "Wiggins." Thank You Beccie for everything you do for David and I (and Annabel and Jude), and for always supporting us in all our endeavors. We love you more then words can say and I can not imagine having a better relationship then the one we have... you mean the world to me!!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Cute Moments
Our little princess turns 3 on March 3rd... whoa!! I can't believe it. She is getting so big (although still Not potty trained). She has been such a great helper with Jude and so far has shown no signs of jealousy. She does things like put Jude's pacifier in his mouth when it comes out and when his diaper needs changing she will go into his room and get a diaper and a wipe and bring them to me to change him. It is so sweet. At church when other kids come up to check Jude out she always has to go over and very proudly exclaim "that is my bruder."
The other day we had all of Annabel's stuffed animals lined accross her bed and she started talking to them about Jesus. All I could really understand was "blah blah...Jesus...blah blah blah...disciples...blah blah...loves you," I don't really know what she was teaching them, but I know it was cute and of course very spiritual :)
Another day I was telling her how cute she was and I said, "Annabel, do you know how cute you are?" she said yes and I asked her how she knew... she said "the Bible tells me so." I cracked up and then called David tell him right away. I love her so much and just can't believe she is so big.
Jude is still not talking... but he smiles an aweful lot, and that smile will melt your heart! (well maybe not yours, but mine for sure!)
Monday, January 26, 2009
Update
Annabel being a sweet big sister
Jude and his crazy hair
Annabel and David's robot man and his robot puppy...Annabel LOVES these blocks.